Thanks Kaitlyn....your post is almost like a touchstone and point of reference. It is really hard to understand what you're doing and what you should be doing with these programs. Ultimately, it wont stop anyone from transitioning that actually should. There's plenty of cis-gendered women out there with crappy male gendered voices. These women aren't mistaken for males.
We, as a group seem to get hypercritical of every facet of our physical presentation to the point that we can literally become obsessive to the point of an unhealthy neurosis. I'm cognizant of that fact and trying to constantly be mindful. Your post really helps put the whole voice issue into perspective. I'll keep at it, plugging away and do the best I can, but in the final analysis, this like every other thing about my transition, won't and can't be a deal breaker. It is what it is. Lisa