I haven’t really been following this thread consistently. I’m only now realizing hat it’s in effect a journal of nikki’s emergence. The discussion of weight loss caught my attention because once upon a time I lost a log of weight, down trom 235 to 168 on a 6’3” frame. According to the insurance industry charts it was deemed a healthy weight, but not on my frame. Someone with a slight build, perhaps like Nikki, may be just fine in that range.
as for jealousy? Nah, I’d say your wife is struggling with the changes she associates with Nikki’s emergence. That’s understandable.
