We need to be careful about throwing out the "F" bomb (fantasy). Of course some are easy to spot and it tarnishes the blog, but this is our outlet for discussing and sharing these events. I am in the middle of something that frankly I barely believe is happening and yet I knew better than to share it because someone would throw out the F bomb and suddenly I would have to defend anything I share and worry about being discredited.
By the way Thank you Caitlyn for sharing that fun and loving relationship with us.
Would like to know the answer????
Why do some women like your X girl friend like guys crossdressed and others vomit????
If you know, let me know.
There's no guarantee that anything posted on this forum is real. We assume that members are being as honest as possible without disclosing personal information about themselves but we can never be certain. I remember a person who got thrown off the forum for "not being who she said she was". This was a long time member with thousands of posts so she must have had a really good storyline written down somewhere.
So do we believe this story? It does sound a bit like something we might read in Penthouse, but then again, it could be true.
Bottom line of course is, it doesn't really make a difference in our lives so it's not worth worrying about.
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My first time crossdressing was with a girlfriend when I was in high school. My junior year of high school I was dating a long time friend who was a freshman (early '90s). We had been dating for a while, and one day after some naked fooling around (no "all the way") I picked up her underwear/panties to hand them to her. Before handing her panties over I held them up to my waist, and did a little side-to-side hip wiggle/dance thing while saying "Wooo". She giggled, and told me to put them on. I was taken aback for a second, asked her if she thought they would fit, and she said to try. I put them on, then she asked me to put her bra on, so I did. Her pants, socks, & sweater fit me perfect (I was skinny. 5'7", 115 pounds, or so). The only thing that didn't fit me were her shoes. I got rather turned on wearing her clothing, and it felt natural to be wearing it; more natural than the guy clothes I wore on a daily basis. Some time later she put makeup on me, and we both got a great laugh out of it, but I secretly enjoyed it. I had always been jealous of girl's/women's fashion, but those moments are when I realized I wanted to wear women's clothing all the time.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Wow! I read your last update and like someone else said, Why did you let her go?
Bring her sister to the game? wow!
Question, when did that happen? I mean, you start cding with your gf? How old were you?
I ask because one of the common elements in many crossdressers is they began in their childhood.
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Its very close to how I started dressing. My girlfriend brought it up....we tried it. Both enjoyed it.
We are getting married next month!
Fair enough, but how does that explain the fact that most drag queens are gay? Or fashion designers, hairdressers, and make up artists, etc.?
Why the obsession with all things feminine...clothes, heels, wigs, make up etc. - even to the point of being over-the-top in their presentation - and often being the featured acts in gay clubs, when there is allegedly no underlying attraction to the feminine amongst gay men?
I don't normally go to bars dressed or not. If I do it is for a drag show which is at a gay bar and yes I will useally dress. I don't have anything against bars except they are there mostly to serve adult beverages, and as a former alcoholic not the best place for me.
Well, it was lingerie and cloths that were my girl friends.
In Hollywood there is on robertson/santa Monica club blow and chi chi larues drag shows and there is Micky's on santa Monica with chi chi la rues mcing the drag shows and DJing at the gay strip clubs.
TS clubs have beauty walks and lip sync.
My ex was bi and it was her that suggested dressing in our relationship. I'd been "dressing" of sorts with opportunity long before then at 18. I didn't tell her this. She wasn't particularly generous and it was definitely about what she got out of it. We eventually drifted apart but she was great besidws this and it wasn't really anything to do with us splitting up.