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    Looking at women

    Do any of you ever (as I often do). Get caught staring at a woman cause you love her outfit or make up? I can't help it!

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    Yes! Today I complimented the receptionist at my local community center on her unique manicure. I think I made her day 😊

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    Absolutely, yes. Used to get me in "trouble" all the time. Can't count the times the S.O. elbowed me back to eyes-front, or I got caught gawking at a female co-worker. Little did they know.

    If I was in a pack of 5 men, 4 of them would make lustful comments of a beautiful woman who passes by. I would be thinking "Lord, I'd look great in that." The Wife was totally stunned when I dropped that fact on her. It was one of the items in "The Talk" that resonated with her; like an epiphany. She understood.

    I am by nature and education a student of the human animal; a biologist, anthropologist; a dedicated people watcher. Amazing what you learn if you keep your mouth shut and observe. LOVE watching the most beautiful, graceful and elegant beings of our species in full cultural glory. So much so that I wanted to join the sorority.
    There resides within me a Woman, and she is powerful.
    She has been my Grace and Bearing on the stormiest seas.
    I could no more deny Her than I would my own soul.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IleneD View Post
    Amazing what you learn if you keep your mouth shut and observe. LOVE watching the most beautiful, graceful and elegant beings of our species in full cultural glory. So much so that I wanted to join the sorority.
    I've observed women since I was a kid. As time went on my fascination with their clothes, accessories, makeup, etc., grew. Something "clicked" internally while I was fully dressed at Halloween, and that's when "I wanted to join the sorority."

    My wife now understands why I've always been able to pick out so many nice things for her, and continues to seek my thoughts and opinion when she shops for herself.


    Karen

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    Yep, I enjoy seeing nice female presentation and mentally noting what they are wearing, especially so that I better understand what makes good daytime wear and makeup versus nighttime party attire and makeup, I do try and blend, not standout....to much
    OMG!! Owning my femininity .... and I LOVE it!

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    I don't stare. But I get caught glancing for an over extended time. I get ideas from what women are wearing; a scarf, shoes, accesories etc. And they might get a look on their face, like they're trying to figure out what I'm looking at.
    "You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder

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    It is the ultimate turn-on. For a while I thought it was lust, but no it's envy and a big dose of admiration. And sometimes it makes the outfit or the wearer attractive when in another outfit either may have been so-so or even blah.
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    Sure do! I hate when I see something and get the craving to feel there sensation. I was in the mall last week and seen a women wearing over the knee boots with a skirt just alittle higher, showing only a few inches of pantyhose. It looked great and as soon as my wife seen the glow in the eyes she knew what I was going to ask her next. Well let's say we are looking.Lol

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    I'm with you Mona Lisa, I tend to notice pretty shoes but they are an addiction for me anyway. I love to see a good make-up job too.
    We live in a world of envy, that's a crossdressers lot I'm afraid.

    Hunnybun.

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    Yes, I have. I often wounder how I would look in what they are wearing.

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    Yes I check out women to see what they are wearing, first their shoes, especially if there is the clip clop of a heel.
    Then if she is in a skirt or dress that captures my attention that much more which you don't see much around here.
    A women dressed classy that is. Then her hair and makeup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lori_Lyn View Post
    Yes I check out women to see what they are wearing, first their shoes, especially if there is the clip clop of a heel.
    Then if she is in a skirt or dress that captures my attention that much more which you don't see much around here.
    A women dressed classy that is. Then her hair and makeup.
    Aah the clip clop of heels!

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    Definitely!
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    Been doing it for 65 years. When I was first married it drove my wife crazy but she started to believe me as I became more vocal about what the woman was wearing.

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    All the time, bit more difficult when the wife is with me and (understandably) gets the wrong idea of why I'm glancing at a woman's shoes or outfit.
    Here today, gone tomorrow....

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    My favorite pastime! If I hear the clack of heels my head swivels. I start at the shoes and work my way up. I notice the outfit, then the face & body. I love almost everything about women.
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    I also become jealous/envious of how good they make it look! Then you have to find that item of clothing and in your size and get frustrated when you can't!! LOL Hugs Lana Mae
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    Lol why else would you look at a beautiful woman.

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    Many times! I love looking at beautiful women but I also love looking at their clothes. I just wish I could have many of the outfits I've seen. I have one girl at church who drives me crazy with the beautiful clothes she wears every week. I'm jealous!
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    I look at women constantly evaluating their walk, style, dress....and envy how they do it. I watch my wife and envy her ease of style. I am so fortunate that she accepts my dressing...not for a moment do I take it or her for granted.

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    It's a fine line between a "look" and "leer"

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    Stop that, it's silly.... DIANEF's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenniferathome View Post
    It's a fine line between a "look" and "leer"
    And I think the majority of us know the difference.
    Here today, gone tomorrow....

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    Quote Originally Posted by DIANEF View Post
    And I think the majority of us know the difference.
    But do the women know the difference?

    This is a situation where you have to be pretty careful. Stare too long at a woman and she or her husband/boyfriend are likely to make an issue of it. If you want to look at women (and who doesn't), you have to keep it subtle and below the "creepy" level.

    So yes, I look but I don't get caught. My wife looks as well and points out unique outfits and/or shoes to me. Mostly though, she points out "fashion mistakes". Bad or inappropriate outfits.

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    Yep pretty women and the clothes they wear. Make one turn their head. LOL Yep my SO tells me about it. But I tell her I like the way she is dressed. uh huh, yes many women have a grace that we try to emulate.
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