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    This "old guy" is not dead. I totally enjoy looking at a fine female form. I really do love seeing women wearing dress or skirts/tops with high heels. One of the best places for "women watching" is Costco on Sunday right after church lets out. Lots of attractive women wearing dresses shopping. The downside....too many kids running around without supervision.

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    While sometimes I can't help but look, I try to keep my glances very brief. Even if my girlfriend isn't around, I would hate any woman to think I was objectifying her or being a creep, especially if I'm out in drab.

    I do most of my looking on the Internet, usually via Pintrest. I just tyoe in something sort of vague like "red tights outfit" or "floral romper" and plenty of results come up. Plus, if I really like the outfit, many of the images show exactly how to put it together!
    "I'm just a girl, what's my destiny?/What I've succumbed to is making me numb/Oh I'm just a girl, my apologies/What I've become is so burdensome/Oh I'm just a girl, lucky me/Twiddle-dum there's no comparison" - "Just a Girl" by No Doubt

    "The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates

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    I have especially been looking at women lately. I am trying to figure out what they wear that looks good. It is probably not a bad idea to look at men also. Yesterday I was playing poker at a casino. I could not help but notice a guy sitting across the table. He looked kind of feminine. I looked at him several times. His eyebrows and hands looked manicured and he could easily pass for a woman if he was dolled up.

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    I think I do more checking out of what woman are wearing. Checking out the woman underneath seems to come second anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Samantha Sometimes View Post
    Do any of you ever (as I often do). Get caught staring at a woman cause you love her outfit or make up? I can't help it!
    Yep, it happened earlier tonight...saw a woman in a red coat, a dress/skirt, and black heels walking up the sidewalk and fixated on her footwear.

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    I'm with you Mona Lisa, I tend to notice pretty shoes but they are an addiction for me anyway. I love to see a good make-up job too.
    We live in a world of envy, that's a crossdressers lot I'm afraid.

    Hunnybun.

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    Yes I check out women to see what they are wearing, first their shoes, especially if there is the clip clop of a heel.
    Then if she is in a skirt or dress that captures my attention that much more which you don't see much around here.
    A women dressed classy that is. Then her hair and makeup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lori_Lyn View Post
    Yes I check out women to see what they are wearing, first their shoes, especially if there is the clip clop of a heel.
    Then if she is in a skirt or dress that captures my attention that much more which you don't see much around here.
    A women dressed classy that is. Then her hair and makeup.
    Aah the clip clop of heels!

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    All the time often with envy occasionally with mirth and sometimes with frustration.
    On rare occasion I have said to a woman this is not a pick up line but you look amazing in that dress .. left a few women beaming
    A.K.A Rebecca & Bec

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    All of the time, and I notice and appreciate so much more about women now. I'll take note of shoes, nails, hair, skin.. things that never caught my eye when I was ogling women as a younger guy.

    Although I've learned to keep my mouth shut a bit. Here in LA you see AMAZING eye makeup on girls - even girls just working at Starbucks or whatever. They're really good at it, and they do these metallic shadow and winged liner jobs that blow my mind. I've complimented a few girls on their makeup, and they think it is insanely weird. It definitely makes them uncomfortable, even though it's just an honest, non-loaded compliment. I guess its something that they'd never hear from a man. So I just shut up and appreciate it.

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    I know that I do. I love watching day time dramas to see what the ladies are wearing. Many times I wish that I could look that great.

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    I love to look at all women . I get envious of them .I ck. out their clothes then i try to see what style of panty or bra they have on.thats when my wife says im staring

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    I look at women constantly evaluating their walk, style, dress....and envy how they do it. I watch my wife and envy her ease of style. I am so fortunate that she accepts my dressing...not for a moment do I take it or her for granted.

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    I compliment women all the time. I am also not afraid to use some their sayings like - That's cute or its beautiful and some others

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    I see myself staring at beautifully dressed woman all the time and wondering what I would look like in their clothes. I had an experience recently while in church. A woman in the pew ahead was wearing the most beautiful pair of black leather pumps I had ever seen. It was all I could do to focus on the service.

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    There is so much we can learn from observing women to we deem to be attractive. Certain styles of how they present themselves, the accessaries such as jewelry and scarves and how they blend their clothing and shoes are a valuable asset for many of us. The difficult part is not staring or dwelling too long with our observations so that we cross the line of leering or harassment.

    I have gathered a lot of good hints from other women especially my stylish wife and adult daughter as well as at church and other public gatherings !
    Sarah Adams, mature girl from NH. My photos are on Flickr under vintage4sarah !

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    I always look at women that are dressed well. If i see one dress realy nice I will always complement them. If they are wearing something that I like I have no problem asking them where did they buy it. But I am always watching so that I can learn the females mannerisms.
    Just a girl fronm Long Island, NY .... always looking to meet others from my area.

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    Yes ! I do look (not leering or in lust), but how they are dressed, how they match clothing colours, how they do their hair, and especially make up (as that is one part I am still learning on how to apply and match).

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    Quote Originally Posted by DIANEF View Post
    And I think the majority of us know the difference.
    But do the women know the difference?

    This is a situation where you have to be pretty careful. Stare too long at a woman and she or her husband/boyfriend are likely to make an issue of it. If you want to look at women (and who doesn't), you have to keep it subtle and below the "creepy" level.

    So yes, I look but I don't get caught. My wife looks as well and points out unique outfits and/or shoes to me. Mostly though, she points out "fashion mistakes". Bad or inappropriate outfits.

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    I try to not stare but it is sometimes hard. I think it was easier before i became self aware. I always noticed a well dressed fit lady.

    Now, I notice them study them especially the outfit, accessories, and mannerisms.

    The other day I was at the grocery store and an attractive woman was wearing a tight black skirt, top, and hose, with 5" pumps and the cutest foot tattoo. I was mesmerized. I kept thinking about all the times we say to dress to blend. I was like "well if she can wear that to the grocery store so can I". Not really of course.

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    Not only do I do it all the time, but I often compliment women on their looks or outfits. Always geet a great response.

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    I also observe women, especially when I see a well dressed woman. I do that to get an idea of the dress they wear so that I can buy one juts like that.

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    I love women, the way they walk in heels is amazing

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    I do all the time. i think some probably think I am checking them out if I am caught looking, if only they knew I was checking out their outfits, often wondering how I would look!

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    I look at the different outfits they are wearing.....Im not interested in the physical aspect of the woman

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