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    Lingerie night at club

    I saw an item online about this - says for 'Masculine men only' - I'm straight but girly and want to enjoy my feminine side.

    "The dress code is as follows :
    Stockings, suspenders, leggings, gloves, tights, panties, thongs, G strings, basques, corsets, body stockings and bras. Babydoll type outfits which meet this list and don’t breech the “NO’s” listed below are welcome. Mixing lingerie with leather and rubber or leather / rubber lingerie are also welcome.
    Footwear wise – trainers / boots / heels / thigh boots are all allowed. However, heels and thigh boots can only be worn as part of your lingerie outfit.
    At our last event we had guys in just lingerie and heels, guys in suit jacket and tie, wearing stockings ,suspenders and heels,* guys in full leather with Dr.Marten boots, basques, panties and stockings.
    NO wigs, make up, drag, dresses and skirts. (you get the idea)
    NO DRAG / TV / TS / TS"

    I like the idea of going just wearing a pouch with long socks to keep my money in, and just relaxing and socialising - not looking for sex. Is that likely to be OK? I've never been to a club like this before, and for me it's unknown territory!

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    Sounds cold...
    And quite honestly just a call for sexsexsex. Show up, say hi, say you're cold and ditch with someone else..
    No CD, no drag, no makeup?
    Yuck! That's just hairy dudes standing around in underwear that doesn't fit!!
    (Imho)

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    Sounds fun. But depends on the place and who will be there. Is it public? Just someone looking to fulfill a fetish? Gay club? Too many unknowns to go alone or without more info. That said, I've been to an all men, all naked party at a club. At one point there was almost no one in the place. They were all in the "private rooms"...

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    Kinda gotta agree with Violet. Guys in lingerie but "no make-up, no wigs"?

    I'm gonna pass. Not my aesthetic.

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    It sounds like they have done this before and are pretty specific of the Do's and Don'ts. It also looks like they do not want Darg, TC, TS, which include, to me anyway, CD's. Give them a call or send and email to get further details.

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    Is this a fetlife thing??
    Whenever I hear of these "munches" I always think of that episode of "Always Sunny in Philadelphia" where the boys go to an orgy with Frank, and it's all these old folks in their underwear eating a buffet. (And sex)
    -- but mainly they're in it for the food.

    But.. that's me, and I don't think I ever want to see any of the local fetlifer's in their underwear.. (barf noise)

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    Ewww sounds like a place I wouldn't want to be.
    Now I would go see the Chippendale review anytime those guys are hot.
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    No, not my thing! Tracii, go girl! LOL Hugs Lana Mae
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    Lana Mae the Chippendale dancers are awesome!!
    I've seen them several times and guys in guys undies are far better to look at than a bunch of guys in womens undies.
    I know some of you will call me out on that comment by saying you wear panties and yes I do but I don't hang out in my undies with guys I don't know.
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    My house every evening, basically

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    I really do hate to say this, but I'll bet everyone's thinking it:

    Sounds kinda gay to me---
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    Most of the dress code sounds fine but no makeup, wigs, or dresses?


    Violet summarizes my thoughts on it well.

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    I roughly smell the concept, and it's not one I want to participate in. ("No wigs, make-up..." is a massive deal breaker, much less "NO DRAG / TV / TS / TS -" (I assume there's a "TG" somewhere in there) presumably referring to TG.

    I think the baseline premise is still for blokes who completely lack any interest in feminine clothing to try them on for s*its and giggles, presenting as, well, men in lingerie, rather than as women. The fetishistic overtones can be smelt a mile away, however.

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    Is this club on earth? Really. I can not believe this actually exists as no non-cross dresser would do it and virtually all cross dressers would not want to do the partial mode.

    Post the ad, I'm incredulous

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    Jenniferathome - it is.

    "At Club Linger London we are fully inclusive , so we welcome gay, bi and straight men to socialise together."
    "The "play area" , for guys who do want to get a bit more intimate with one another is way at the BACK of the venue. You need never venture up there if you don't want to and you will not "witness" anything naughty going on , if you would rather not see that kind of thing."

    I have my reservations and concerns, all the same.

    Addendum:
    "Club Linger London is a men only space, we do not admit females.
    We also do not allow entry to those appear as transgender or transvestites."
    This decidedly confirms it.
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    So its a gay club that's "fully inclusive" as long as you are not a woman, cross dresser, or transgender. I clicked that link Lilly (I wish I hadn't). It's a fetish thing for gay men.

    I find it comical that the inclusive policy includes straight men. There are no "straight" men going there.

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    I'm always mystified by groups that spend decades asking for acceptance, tolerance and inclusion who then behave intolerantly, and set out rules that exclude.
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    I've been to something like this, and the whole idea is not to be campy drag queens, and try to emulate women, but to enjoy being male and wanting to wear lingerie style clothes- partially or fully in the company of others who also have a similar desire, and won't mock you.

    The underlying sexiness of lingerie is a fundamental- and your concept of a pouch and long socks would be perfect. It is kind of male style lingerie, and there will be leather and rubber pouches of all kinds, probably piercings and rings and everyone's personal take on mix and match as they describe The irony here is that lace etc is fine as well, you just don't call it women's!

    I say go and enjoy yourself. You will find other guys who want to just be able to relax in the same way, and enjoy the inherent sexiness of themselves and men, without actually touching anyone, and it is perfectly ok to turn down propositions.
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    Nice that they recognize that there are some men (straight or not) whom have interest in lingerie that would like to just socialize. Sounds like an event that is needed for that segment of crossdressing. Seeing that the majority of the people in the crossdressing community is basically men in lingerie.....

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    As a bi, cross-dressing, naturist, exhibitionist, I would love this place

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    Have at it if that kind of stuff sounds like fun to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuliePtown View Post
    As a bi, cross-dressing, naturist, exhibitionist, I would love this place
    except, you aren't the target audience
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    I could blend and still have fun... I would bet they aren't all as straight as they would like others to think.

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    Now if you look at the site, it say it all, it is a gay club and we would not go to that kind of function although some might. If you do go let us know what it was like. LOL it is probably very X rated.
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    Doesn't sound like a place for me, but each to there own
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