If you were out shopping in the mall wearing panties, black boots under your pants,hip andbuttpadsunder fairly tight black boot cut girl jeans (black being less obvious) and the shaper definitely transformed your mid section showing off the flare of the hips, flat front and protruding curvy butt; and a woman noticed and stared, would you be cool with this by being noticed expressing your feminine self or embarrassed? Next scenario, if you were wearing girl jeans and your jacket had questionable protrusions that may or may not be clocked as you might bewearing a bra with female breast forms would you be cool or uncomfortable that it had caught her eye. Thirdly you were clocked wearing 3" women's boots that apparently didn't pass as cowboy boots, how would this make you feel? Areyou comfortable being out dressed andro and wearing the clothes you are comfortable in and you are clocked once in a while, are you O.K. with this?