There's been a couple of posts were folks have talked about the perennial topic of passing. During these posts alternatives descriptions came up, Presentable and Plausible. One of the other perennials is feeling sexy.
The other night I was sat on the edge of the bed taking off my holdups and the thought struck me that wearing them didn't necessarily make me feel sexy. If I had to put a definition to it it would be sensual. I enjoy the sensation hence the description. Okay, it's being a bit pedantic, hair splitting perhaps but even when I'll dressed to the very best I can achieve, I don't see or experience myself as having a sexy aura. I'm not looking to give off signals, indicators of sexuality.
Forms, padding, corsets, bodycon dress, heels, wig, all go to make me feel good about myself and I think give off a different persona but there's never any desire to act sexy. Act like a GG who's confident in her own skin, yep perhaps, but sexy, no.
