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    what is one thing you hate about crossdressing....

    having been out on many occasions it never occurred to me how annoying some little things could be while being out and about in the "wild" while being my true self....now all can share with us but keep it to the lighter side of life, pet peeves as it were...
    some still struggle with how they identify and such and im sure they have more serious thoughts to contend with.
    please only add one each....

    so for me "hair in my mouth while eating" is on one of my nerves....
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    Having to buy male clothing because sometimes its difficult to get things in women's sizes
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    Having to return to Male Mode after a great time in the reverse.
    I do wear fem jeans all the time now, and with panties and a bra,
    well I am almost there.
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    Not enough closet space for my pretties!

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    Hmmm. Just one thing... I'm going with ingrown hairs.

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    I guess for me knowing it's time to get undressed and the pain of getting all the makeup off.

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    The one thing that annoys me is the amount of shaving I have to do. I really love the feeling of nice smooth skin, the smell of my moisturising lotions and the way my clothes feel against my skin straight after shaving, but it's that it never lasts long enough meaning I have to keep on top of it to stop from it getting uncomfortable. I'm really hoping to get hormone therapy that could potentially help this a lot!

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    Mikell, I have to agree on the long hair tries to get in your mouth, I have learned to out it back and not tilted your head as you are eating. But when I have to be male in the morning, I don't want to go to bed as my feminine self is trying to stay alive. LOL Yep she is important.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RADER View Post
    Having to return to Male Mode after a great time in the reverse.
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    Breaks my heart every time.
    Put on a Happy Face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meghan4now View Post
    Breaks my heart every time.
    Agreed! I took that as a given for us all!

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    Being closeted and DADT.

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    I guess that was two things, sorry.

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    The one thing I hate? How long it takes me to transform! It's the definition of a labor of love.

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    The lack of widespread social acceptance.

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    That extra load of wash(delicates).
    "you are a strange species and there are many out there;shall I tell you what I find beautiful about you ,you are at your best when things are at their worst" ...[ Starman]
    It may of course be a bit disturbing to sense that one is really not so firmly anchored to the gender one was born into.

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    Long hair gets really annoying after a while. Especially while eating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle View Post
    Long hair gets really annoying after a while. Especially while eating.
    I soon learned that one had to walk into the wind while eating ice cream cones. ;-)

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    I have a number of wigs and I am not good at wig upkeep (my Cd kryptonite). There is always one single hair that will either stick to my lipstick or eye lashes. But the hair doesn't come from where I think it does, usually from the back of my head or something. I spend an inordinate amount of time trying to figure out how the move the thing! And it's always a single hair, I can live with a bunch of hair in my eye.
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    I'm construing the question as "while being out and about in the wild" and not because femme time may be over.

    My biggest complaint has been walking on concrete sidewalks in high heels. It's not because I cannot negotiate the walk or strut. It's because concrete is so hard on relatively thin and non absorbing shock on the heels and soles. My male shoes are much more comfortable. I did finally buy a pair of relatively flat shoes (wedge) with man made material on the heel and sole to deaden the impact of my weight. Much more comfortable.

    In the past I have recommended for long walks to wear a pair of athletic shoes with brightly colored laces, and, carry a pair of heels in a tote. When I was still working in the financial district many of the well dressed professional office women carried their heels in a tote and changed at work.

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    I don't always have enough time.
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    No one ever said that being a lady was going to be easy !

    Hi Mikell, I really hate when Orchid has to go back in the closet......
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    Stop that, it's silly.... DIANEF's Avatar
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    Most of the things already mentioned, plus stabbing myself in the eye with the mascara brush.
    Here today, gone tomorrow....

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    It costs more to get my hair done now, than it did back when I just got buzz cuts all the time.
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    Having to take off all my pretty clothes and go back to drab mode! The hair in the mouth is hard to get used to as well!
    Just trying to be the real me!

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    I can relate with most of what's been posted so far especially the putting away my clothes after a fun evening out.

    One of my peeves is texting with fake nails. I have to change the angle of my fingers and it doesn't always work.
    Second peeve is fake eyelashes. I LOVE THEM, but can't seem to apply them myself.
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    When life prevents sufficient dressing time.
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