Hello all,
My wife found out about my dressing in a less than ideal manner about three months ago. I posted about it at the time so I won't rehash it here. Since then we have been working out way through things VERY slowly.
In December I began to see a therapist (this was my decision) not in hopes of being "cured" but to help open up a dialogue with my wife about my crossdressing. To date we have discussed it some, but not nearly enough, with it being the elephant in the room on many occasions.
After my initial visits I felt comfortable with the therapist and asked my wife if she would be willing to join me. She agreed but with some reluctance, as she felt it would likely be nothing more than a preaching session with her being put on the defensive.
Well on Friday we went to our first joint session and without getting into detail, we both left feeling that it was a good and productive meeting and we will have another in a few weeks.
I know I haven't said much here but I really think the therapy process is helping to open up communication for my wife and I, and my wife, who is otherwise open minded, is becoming more accepting of our situation. I'm very hopeful for our future.
Thanks for indulging me,
Beth