Based on the need for privacy or secrecy here,I think there are many forum members in the closet and show "their other side" to their vanilla world. Trans people are facing a bleak future beating at the moment. We need allies in the business world as that is the employment world. Or perhaps you are in the education field..I want members to realize that being a supporter of transgender people in their community does not "out them" to the world. As part of attempting to pass an HRO in Jacksonville Florida over the past few years,we have engaged open minded and supportive business leaders. They have spoken up for the alphabet community and freely hire us. So,as an employer,supervisor,teacher,etc will you do your best to support the community by giving transgender people a chance in education and employment. Being an ally does not out you !