Doreen,
Hello my take on it would be just to shave your legs unless you have compromised with your wife not to. It’s hot here in Texas a lot more than I’m used to in Canada and I find I never wear panty hose here.
I’m very fair so I put on some self tan lotion .
If you can’t completely shave .....just own it and not worry.
I enjoy checking out all your fun adventures!