There's a long thread about kissing a guy while en femme.
I haven't kissed a guy, per se, but I did kiss a CD.
We met at Keystone and danced together most of the night. What started as a kiss good night as we parted at the elevator turned into another, and another and another ...
Finally I had to drag her outside and we had kind of a makeout session. She reached behind me and put her hands up the back of my dress and rubbed my buttocks. We both had very smudged lipstick when we were done. But, it didn't lead to anything more. We're planning to meet again this Keystone.
I never thought of myself as the slightest bit gay, but it was really nice and exciting, if you know what I mean.
Be nice and don't over-analyze it. Even though it was a lot of fun, I am not labeling it as gay.