My wife found some panties in my dresser and toss them out. But didn't say anything to me about. A week later she found more new panties in the dresser plus a black lace teddy. That night when I got home she wanted to talk to me. Told me she had found panties in the dresser last week and toss them and that she found more today and the teddy. She asked me if I was going to stop. I said no. So she said she would stop looking for things just don't leave them out where she can see them. I said OK.

I've been doing this for over 60 yrs. I don't hide most of my things. But since our talk things have been a lot better here. Still can't dress when she is home but I under dress every day And all my jeans are female and I wear them almost every day.