There is a Sticky Thread called "tips to a SO's acceptance link below:
https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...highlight=tips
This could almost be a step program
This thread has 9 great tips for relationships.
I was thinking it would be beneficial to take each one expound on Why you did not follow the advice and where you were in the PAST, where you are in the PRESENT and where expect to be in the FUTURE
Limit your replies to the Topic Don't Lie to your SO and not to the other topics in the Sticky
DON'T lie:
When you tell her, be an open book. Answer her questions when she asks. Tell her that you will answer any question she has and will be honest. This establishes trust.
Don't tell half truths, this will hurt later on down the line and we found this one out the hard way.
PAST - My ex and I split up for other reasons (my health at the time, it took over 10 years to get a proper diagnosis), I now know that we were doomed to separate from the beginning, but that's another story. For me honesty has always been important.
PRESENT - Jeannie and I have a completely honest relationship, I think it also helps that I respect her opinion.
FUTURE - I hope to always value the truth. Since my relationship is based on truth I really do not want to jeopardize that. My biggest concern is I struggle with where I want to be in the future, and as every knows, where you want to be and where your SO wants to be can change.