I've been following Rebecca's post where she has been wondering about whether or not her wife is mocking her and started this response but decided it probably ought to be in it's own thread. Im sure this topic has come up before. As a matter of fact I've probably brought it up in the past. But there are probably enough new folks here that it deserves to be considered again:
For me there's a dilemma that I've often wondered about in the past,however. Is my crossdressing a tribute to women (which I think it is) or demeaning to them (which some genetic women may think). Is my crossdressing simply another way for me to exercise my male privilege? Is it a tribute or a travesty? I can get prettied up, go out and pretend to be a woman for a few hours then return to my male status. I don't have to menstruate every month, don't have to carry a child for nine months, don't have to settle for less money for equivalent work, or suffer the thousands of disadvantages that natal women have to deal with. In some sense I can understand where cis-women might feel some resentment over our desire ( and ability ) to play act at being women without have to actually pay the price of femininity in our society. Comments? And please, GG's on the forum please give your feedback.