Hi everyone,
For over a year i had been torn between the guilt of hiding my crossdressing from my wife & the fear of what might happen to our relationship if i were to tell her about it.
I finally realised that i had to be honest with her, so after bottling-out of it several times i poured everything out to her while we were home together.
My wife was amazing about it. I was shaking with nerves as i told her, but she hugged me & said that she would try to be understanding even tho it was all a sudden shock to her.
I tried to reassure her on several things: that i still love her very much; that my sexuality has not changed; that i do not want to go public with my crossdressing. I apologised for keeping secrets from her and promised to be open with her from now on.
We talked more about when/why i started crossdressing and discussed the sort of things that i like wearing. We actually agreed on certain feminine clothes that she is fine with me wearing in the house & we also agreed that if i want to progress and try other items of clothing i should talk to her to see how she feels about it.
It feels amazin to finally be able to talk openly to my wife about crossdressing. I just hope that we can find a balance that works for both of us in the future. When i made my introduction post recently, several members warned me not to try to progress too quickly. Great advice which i will always try to remember. Thank-you