All,
Thanks for so many kind and informative replies! Themes I hear: yes many do have increased interest in dressing, more opportunity exists, more self acceptance exists. Kids gone helps immensely, so does not dressing for professional work image.
Perhaps most important: not caring too much what others think. Hard one for me, to be sure. This is a very conservative area, and I have many extremely conservative (i.e. under-educated on gender issues and perhaps fearful) friends. I have heard more than once various GLBT bashing sentences. It hurts, but I do not respond.
Interesting that less testosterone might be a contributor? New one there on me.
Living in Houston, TX gives me pause on society acceptance though. This is not a very TG friendly town, or at least it is very erratic. I would have to be extremely careful dressing and then driving anywhere given many neighbors that know me well and a very unusual car.
I need some new clothes. Will work that concept. And makeup.