Hey all, not sure if i`ve seen this subject here before or maybe a variation of it?? Anyways i`m fortunate to have a loving understanding accepting wife whom i told about Susan before marriage and all`s been well so far.?Although it probably took a couple of years or so till she got comfortable actually seeing Susan and interrelating with her on a day to day basis. Anyways, currently things are fine, but what i`m getting at is this, and its probably more for girls with `accepting wives/gf`s`. If she suddenly decided that she`s had enough of our `otherside` and gave an ultimatum,,,,, could or would you give up your femme side for her/marriage in all honesty? Ive not had to make that decision yet,hopefully never will have to,but in my case in all honesty i`d have to tell her I couldn`t and will not and then let the cards fall where they may? It would make for a wild open ended future of delusion/confusion at times of what a girls to do and adjust for?