Ok ,so last night i was out with my girlfriend and with my 10 year old son .
I was dressed as a boy , being a Dad, we went to a nice Italian restaurant in Little Italy ,NYC . it was after dinner and we had several blocks to walk , so my SO started to tell me that Her feet hurt and asked how many blocks left till we get to where we need to be.
We are the same size in shoes.
We actually had a long walk in front of us . I offered to trade shoes with her ,because I was wearing running sneakers . We all three laughed . But I was sincere in my offer . We stopped and traded shoes . My son was happy to see this , and laughed " well now you just need a long blond wig to complete the look .
We walked about 7 or 8 blocks walking through a busy saturday evening crowd. No one really stared nor commented . We all just joked for a minute or two and got over it pretty quickly .
I only noticed for myself how much my walking style changes while wearing women's heels vs mens flat shoes .I don't really focus too much when i am fully presenting as fem .
I have never really gone out in "partial dressed " mode . Its a new and different experience. It was easy and not really a big deal