Hi, Erin here. I hope this fits the SO discussion category.........I have a situation that continues to be problematic for my wife, a GG, and I. She is quite accepting of my dressing and knows when I got out and knows some of my CD friends. We are a fun group who like the en femme experience and are not into sex, kink, or other such intimate activities that might threaten to compete with our marriage. However, when she sees me dressed it causes her a lot of emotional difficulty. She says that the image of me en femme in her mind clashes with her being used to me as a male partner. Some of it is her view of women in general, as she is a feminist. She wonders how much of the CD en femme is objectifying to women. I always dress pretty normal, with a little makeup and not drag/swanky, so I do not understand her comments. I always tell her I am a feminist too and that is a big part of my dressing. It helps me remember to drop my male armour which has been very good for me. We talk from time to time about revisiting her being with me when I am dressed. After 30 years, this is still the case. So I don't dress with her nor go out as a female-female couple, although I'd like to. We have had couple's therapy, and we agreed to go another round with the therapist. Does anyone have some insight into this kind of situation? Thanks so much!