Hmmmm, being married 35 yrs and trying to keep us a couple. I continue my slow baby steps forward. I'm at full transition dose. And female levels. Yes I'm in a great place mentally, but the changes are very noticeable now. Breast growth, well there's no doubt that something is going on. Facial changes also. The looks from friends ,,,,remarks. Most I think have a clue if not downright figured it out, but are being ether polite, or cautious in asking questions. My wife prefers I keep it secret. Being transgender.... But eventually I wil transition, but for the sake of love,,,,I haven't. But it gets harder the closer I get to retirement and I could be me....without work related consequences. One day at a time , one foot in front of the other, always making progress...is my mantra