I've been a crossdresser for 17 years or so, but have only recently been allowing myself to truly explore who I am. I know it's more than casual crossdressing, but I don't think I am quite transgender. For sure more on the femme side of the gender binary, though. I've never been intimate with a man, but i've recently become curious about it. I wanted to ask some advice from any of you whom have been primarily with women, but have "tried out" men.
How did it happen?/What did you do to make it happen?
I don't really want to try hook-up sites/apps because I am wary about safety (both physical and remaining STI free). I don't really know a lot of gay/bi men, either. All the guys I know are pretty straight (or at least appear to be)...it's not like I can casually ask if they were up for it.
Any ideas/advice?
