No not this time, but Just as I began to get tired of fighting the good fight, keeping a stiff upper lip and so on an incident happens that makes it all worth while. I was out cruising' around to my fave garden/produce stands looking for some early Jersey Fresh asparagus(which I did find) and while browsing the small assortment of flowers that can be planted now a woman came along side me and said "excuse me but your hair looks lovely and I love the style"(sorry ladies no bangs this time) and as I always do look her in the eye and say "thank-you" with this my voice gives me away and she immediately apologizes while looking at my "outfit" as if to say "but your wearing a skirt". Now I should say(as if anyone doesn't know) I'm dressed some what femininely in a ladies button down linen shirt, skirt of course(maxi) and my 1" grasshopper canvas loafers, with a touch of make-up(which I now do when not in work of course).I opted for no breasts but I seem to have an almost natural A cup, and of course my "J" shaped earrings. I don't think I look like a woman but evidently others do. Well back to my encounter, I tell her there's no need to feel bad I know that I must look like a female from afar and she says that I even "moved" in a feminine manor and so started the usual why do you do it? to which I offered if she wanted we could go get a cup of coffee somewhere and I could answer her questions and maybe have some small talk, I wasn't surprised that she denied my request, not knowing this "strange" man and all but said that maybe we would see each other at some other time at the market buying plants and flowers and could have a conversation then, to which I replied that I would look forward to it and I hope it would happen. We smiled that "girl" smile and both gave a fingers wave and went about our business as if a chance meeting of two women out doing what they like to do. Maybe next time I'll be presenting full on female and we can have that cup of coffee. Just when you need a lift in spirits stuff happens, oh yeah I bought some "Pansies" to brighten up my beds, how appropriate or ironic? Thing is how comfy I feel when out and about that I forget about the "Muggles" and their perceptions of a man who presents as female or less manly in dress and deportment. I guess I'm hooked it's too late for me save yourselves from all the fun. Just had to write my day, enjoy.
