Reading an earlier thread about someones first baby step got me thinking, we all started somewhere and we all did something at the start of our journeys that was huge at the time. I am not talking about the first item of clothing we put on as we all did that at some stage. But the thing you did that made you stop and think OMG I just did....

After years of CDing and always simply being a guy putting on some items of clothing, everything changed overnight. One of the first things i did was to open a yahoo email account where I selected an gender neutral email address. I can still so clearly remember hovering over gender and selecting female and then thinking wow what did I just do. Such a small step on the long road ahead that has had so many huge leaps, but at the time it felt so significant.