This is just a food for thought thread and not meant to be any kind of ranking.I was thinking that when I decide to present as a female, I have an advantage as I can emulate practically any body type I desire. From stick like to rubenesque. Just with the use of padding. But, the obvious disadvantage is that my broad shoulders are a definite give away.
So, what's your advantage and disadvantage?
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
Disadvantage - weird men hit on me.
Advantage - with a shaved bum, I can wipe properly after going
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Advantages : 5'-7" tall, my own long hair.
Disadvantages: short and stocky, man hands, bowed legs, big nose all my "man" features too many to list.
But I love a challenge so being my femme self in expression is just plain fun and fulfilling.
"you are a strange species and there are many out there;shall I tell you what I find beautiful about you ,you are at your best when things are at their worst" ...[ Starman]
It may of course be a bit disturbing to sense that one is really not so firmly anchored to the gender one was born into.
Good - slim, not hairy, smallish feet, not tall (5'8')
Bad - man hands, eyebags, big chin
Here today, gone tomorrow....
Disadvantage I need to change to guy mode to walk the dog. Advantage I get to be me.
Angie
My advantage are my long slim legs, they look good in shorts or skirts.
Disadvantage is my shoulders and my face especially if my makeup looks poorly done
I think I'm starting to be uncomfortably comfortable with both the Advantageous and the Dis-.
The nails on my man hands look very femme now that the white tips have fully cured and my legs will look great by Friday evening.
But to be honest I'm still a 6' Nordic looking male with masculine neck, shoulder and facial features!
I'll just let my femininity mould my masculinity for now and see what happens!
Stacy, with Advantage!
STOP, Well I just dance the way I feel
Stop breathing imagine none of this is real
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel
Well I just dance the way I feel "Ou Est Le Swimming Pool"
Advantage, Tall, skinny girl features, Yet my face sometimes is manly with hair on it. Long hair and where hair down a lot. Long finger nails and B sized moobs. But run as a male for a lot of the time. I wounder what they really think. I am quite non-binary.
Part Time Girl
I can and do copy every female who's look appeals to me.
Except those darn giraffe, model types with stretched necks and long, skinny arms and legs!
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Advantages; light colored hair so no beard shadow no pblm, don't have to shave legs (they went bald-don't know why). Smaller frame body, smaller feet (male size 8 US) not too tall 5'8" and features aren't over sized.
Disadvantages; getting older (71), turkey neck, larger hands, ................................Debra
My advantage is I gave up caring how other people "rate" my presentation.Honestly, I'm me and I look exactly what I should look like.
I am not a woman; I don't want to be a woman; I don't want to be mistaken for a woman.
I am not a man; I don't want to be a man; I don't want to be mistaken for a man.
I am a transgender person. And I'm still figuring out what that means.
The last time I met up with other CD'ers one of them complemented me on how my wig, style and colour - brunette, suited me. I replied that while out shopping earlier in the afternoon I'd been a blonde. So yes Carla is right. We can and do alter our appearance to suit our moods.
As for my greatest advantage; it's that my beard grows slowly. No 5 o'clock shadow for me to worry about especially as my hair is greying. Being able to close shave in the morning and no significant growth even late evening. Being able to be out for 12-15 hours and spend all day "presentable" is just a real boon.
Who dares wears Get in, get out without being noticed
Advantages: 5'7", small feet (Women's 9, 91/2), Blue eyes,
Disadvantages: manly hands, broad shoulders, oldish.
Lolz @ oldish.
+
Lightweight
Genetically gifted in the no hair department.
Totally smashable from the butt down (so I'm told).
Decent front face.
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Prematurely Bald.
Prematurely Grumpy.
Tiny head (shaped like a potato).
Prominent nose.
No upper body fat storage anywhere but cheeks and gut (variable).
Carla,
To me my advantage is being the physical size and shape I am,only needing small forms to give me a balanced figure , size 12 ( UK ) mostly fits me off the peg .I guess I have the usual disadvantages of larger hands and feet, I really don't worry too much about the voice and I'm happy to to have the choice of hair styles by using different wigs.
Away from physical problems I'm fairly happy with my appearance but being accepted by my wife is the biggy !
Height :- 5' 7", weight :- 147 lbs , Bust:- 37", waist:- 31" , hips:- 37", age :- 66 ( the only item I wish I could change ! )
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+ Butt then legs. And without doing myself the disjustice, if i was able too, i think my personality would shine in the right company.
- I will probably never get to find out if others think my +'s are worthy
+ Not afraid to experiment, maybe my personality?, once had a 28" waist
- My body, getting old, not having a 28" waist
Hugs Lana Mae
Life is worth living!
"Foxy lady! You look so good!!" Jimi Hendrix
Advantage: height (5'9")
Advantage: not much body hair
Advantage: foot size (women's 9.5 US)
Advantage: dress size 16 (might be able to get down to a 14)
Advantage: slender fingers
Advantage: slender legs
Con: hooded eyes. Hard to conceal but not impossible.
Con: shoulders wider than hips. Not overly wide but enough that I have to remember to keep my arms from looking like I'm ready for takeoff.
Con: nose. While not large it is somewhat prominent for my face. Makeup is a girls friend!!
Con: butt. I never had one as a guy so padding is a must for me.
I'm 61 YO but I consider that neither an advantage nor disadvantage. I prefer to dress stylishly but age appropriate. However, I can still appreciate the modern look on the stylish younger ladies we have here.
Lauren
Lauren Nicole DeHart
Call me Nikki
Advantages:
I have thin fingers and a womanly hands.
I have the skinny broomstick arms of an adolescent schoolgirl.
I don't have much body hair, and almost nothing on my legs.
Disadvantages:
I have a large upper body, and my waist is altogether too big.
My feet are huge even on the man-scale (size 13).
My shoulders are broard and muscular.
My head is almost bald.
I am too old to be attractive.
My face just look way too masculine.
I cannot pass as a woman - even an ugly one.
Why am I reminded of a black adder scene all of a sudden.
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Advantage-Round pie shaped face, smooth skin. Also height, 5'5"
Disadvantage-My voice, especially my accent which is a mix of Bronx and Louisiana. Think Harry Connick Jr combo with Leah Remini of King of Queens.
In solitude where we are least alone. Byron
+ My long hair, slight stature, short height, and round butt that all seems to get me a lot of "Ma m's" from behind.
- My weather beaten manly face and deep voice that gets me the "Errr excuse me Sir....sorry" when I turn around.
On another plus side I do have a lot of fun with that.
When I am still and quiet, people who do not know me think, Oh how cute she's shy.
People who do know me think, OMG RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls will be boys and boys will be girls It's a mixed up muddled up shook up world except for Lola
Advantage - with a shaved bum, I can wipe properly after going
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Thats funny about the bum but true!
For me my legs are fantastic but my guy belly not so good
No regrets except I should have got dressed & stepped out sooner.
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