I'm 31, have been dressing for a long time and I made the decision this past week that it's a part of me that is not going away. I have been with my fiancee for 12 years and felt she really deserved to know the truth about all this. It had been a tough decision but ultimately I wrote her a note and we had a long discussion over dinner. She had a lot of questions and I was an open book. I think she is still trying to figure out and wrap her head around all this. I'm extremely lucky to be with someone like this who is willing to hear me out. I'm hoping we can progress further but right now I haven't brought it up and just want to give her all the time she needs to digest this.
Thanks all for listening!