Well most people said be open and honest to the wife.
Well my wife found my 4" heels and a hair brush after 35 years of marriage and I told her 98% of the whole story.

That I dressed since 5 and for the 1st five years of our marriage, then stopped for over 25 and then it came back.

Well now two months later she's still mad, I haven't dressed, purged half my stuff.

I'm walking on egg shells around her.

I'm trying not to think about dressing but I jut saw a commercial and the woman had on a dress to die for.

Boy this is tuff.