For a year or more, i had been emailing one admirer, about 100 miles from me. He was pretty sure that he wanted me, kind of as a wife, to him, be "his woman:, at times. I decided not to meet hem, as i many times told him, just no strings attached, maybe friends. Last march, he agreed to meet me just as a friend, and no penetration sex. Well, i drove up there, was almost an hour late, because of getting lost, and heavy traffic. We met at a fast foof parking lot, and i followed him to his house. I apologized for being late. He was not very nice, to tell the truth, though he did not try to force me beyond my stated boundries. He was quite harsh. I left, and decided i would not meet him again. My vehicle had trouble on the way back, but it crawled all the way home. Another man, i have emailed with for a few years off and on, about 100 miles away. I had thought of meeting him many times, and when "pink fog" hit hard last week, i decided to go meet, this week. But, the "fog" lifted, and i reconsidered. He has never been willing to send a photo of himself, ever! He has never shared anything about himself, ever. So, a few days ago, i apologized for "leading him on, and told him, i won't met him, because i really know nothing about him, and never a photo. He was not happy. I told him, i have my mental and emotional health issues, too, and i don't know him from Adam. I did my best to apologize. The man side of me, was fighting against going, too. Anyway, he's ticked off. I ignore his emails now. Caution is always best. Thought, i had met two other men, in seven years, that were gentlmen, these last two were less than nice. All i can d=say, is be VERY cautious, when meeting a person who won.t give a photo, or who ever. Some are gentlemen,. Some are creepy. I am considering not meeting any more. My guy side fights it, too.
