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    Favorite things when out dressed... a man holding the door for me

    When out dressed what are some of your favorite things?
    I love a man holding the door for me. I don't know if i have been clocked or not but it does make me feel accepted as a woman when he holds that door open. I find myself seeking out opportunities where a man will be near a door to open it for me as I approach.

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    I love catching my reflection in a window as I walk past.

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    I agree that is s good felling every time it happens and the men just go about their business.. So nice.
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    My main thing is to get into those personal conversations about life and each other with complete strangers, which I do every time I am out in female or male mode. I need social contact and communication and my dressing greatly facilitates that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Julia B View Post
    I love a man holding the door for me.

    Hi Julia

    I hope you smile and thank the kind Gentleman
    Shelly

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    Chivalry is not dead!

    In male mode I always hold the door for a lady.

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    I love being called "Ma'am" and being referred to as "she." Every "Ma'am" or "she" is a feather in my bonnet.

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    I like playing pool at my favorite dive bar. Which is where I am right now just hanging with friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AllieSF View Post
    My main thing is to get into those personal conversations about life and each other with complete strangers...
    I agree with Allie. I so enjoy having conversations about life with others when I travel. I almost always travel en fem and have long conversations with the people seating next to me on the airplane makes the trip so worthwhile.

    Richelle

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shelly Preston View Post
    Hi Julia

    I hope you smile and thank the kind Gentleman
    Absolutely! I always smile and thank the man.

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    I like it when a pretty young woman says, "You're hot", or, "Pretty", or compliments what I'm wearing!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

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    For me it's when I'm sitting at a bar and the fellow next to me says "give me another shot bartender, and give her one too."This happened to me in April,I was on cloud 9. I wish I could see this lovely chap again. Love&hugs
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elizabeth G View Post
    I love catching my reflection in a window as I walk past.
    I so love to see my femme reflection in a window along with my feet making that distinguished clicking sound,from my heels

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richelle View Post
    I agree with Allie. I so enjoy having conversations about life with others when I travel. I almost always travel en fem and have long conversations with the people seating next to me on the airplane makes the trip so worthwhile.

    Richelle
    I don't go out, but as a person, and if I did, I would be into having these conversations you and Alliie talk about. I love deep conversations about life, the cosmos, who we are, where we are from, why we do the things we do, and so on. Many consider this type of banter boring, but I consider small talk boring.

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    Hanging out in the ladies room chit chatting with real girls.Being addressed as Suzanne and not my male name.My town is very excepting but the bartenders still have issues and will not call me by my feminine name.
    Having the bar opened after hours just for me as the bar staff says ," That's Suzanne let her in".

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    For me, it would be the glance with a smile. But then again I never had a door held for me, if it were I would say thank you with the same smile. Thanks for asking. Brenda

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    It's become kind of customary to hold the door for anyone else that is nearing the door now days - at least it is in my area. And it's also considerate to say thank you when someone holds the door for another. Doors are held for others regardless of sex, race, age etc.
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    I love those times I just talk with other women as one of the girls.

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    I have had the door open for me and I always thank them.
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    Being mam'd is always great. see my reflection as I walk through a department store is a thrill too. Getting in a conversation with an SA and being fully accepted is a kick too. It always fun just getting out.
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    While at the club, being asked to dance...happened the last time I was out
    Wearing my fuschia bodycon dress:
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    For the first time, outdoors during the day:
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    I was buying some conditioner where I get my hair cut and a male employee asked if a female and I wanted any water "ladies".

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