First a disclaimer, I am not what you would call the "usual" CDer, and I am what many wives, SO's and muggles are afraid will happen to men who crossdress. Now since it is a rainy day I'd thought I'd do some man shopping, you know tools and the like and since the general consensus is dress for the venue I donned my total male clothing and demeanor and off I went, didn't yell or flip off any other drivers and mostly obeyed the laws of the road. Then while pondering a purchase I caught myself standing in a less than manly manor and my arms and hands were, lets say, positioned in a more femme arrangement. Scared the crap out of me so off I went to get back home and change my clothing(and put on my femme enhancing face, a sort of natural everyday look, plus girls and padding) to fit my more and more "natural" behavior then out again to my fave road side greenhouse. I began shopping some venues in the off seasons or inclement weather, can get some great bargains and not be rushed plus get to interact more with the people there as no one is in such a hurry. While perusing the flowers and plants one of the women tending the stand started talking to me about the different items I was looking at and before I knew it the conversation had turned to stories and how we related to them, all the time there was arm touching and hand clasping and broad smiles as if we were long friends, although I do frequent there very often in both "modes" of dress. The purpose of my relating my morning is that not so long ago I had to "watch" my actions as to not be so "manly" while dressed as my femme self and be more open and now like the title says "oh how the worm has turned".