I've been dealing with a number of issues apart from gender identity, so lots of things went on the back burner the last two years.
I'm going to see my GG "big sister", and her husband in early June, she made it abundantly clear that she expected me, not some guy to show up for the week, so let it be written so let it be done.
I got stopped for a broken headlight a couple of weeks ago, the PO had a concept problem with my appearance Vs my license picture, so two days ago I went to the DMV and had my picture re-taken in a fitted t shirt, hoodie, posts in my ears, and a fairly arched fresh brow wax.
So my government ID is now more feminine than I could have imagined a year ago.
Off the fence, and on the horse I suppose - what a long strange road it's been getting to this week.