So girls what does it mean to you, to be you? to be fem, to be girly whatever you wanna call it... For me it is an escape from the stress of work, worries and woes, It's a chance for the real me to come out from behind the mask I wear to work everyday. I work in an engineering office for a pharma company where 80% of the people I work with are male. So being one of the guys has to be accepted in order to fit in It's so draining pretending to be macho and not being able to be myself I deserve an oscar for the performance I give everyday But it makes dressing all that more rewarding So to me it means everything