Do you identify as a cross-dresser and have a boyfriend? What is your relationship like? Did you always see yourself in this type of relationship?
Why do I ask?
Because I constantly think about what it would be like to be loved as a woman. The relationship just seems natural.
I love women. But have tried being a girlfriend wit a married man. LOL He wanted me to be very feminine and during love making he looked at me like a woman and it felt so nice. I think only a man can love us as a woman. but they are hard to find. And we want a very nice man to treat us well. I have t say that it was awesome in the bedroom to be treated like a woman. I am with a woman now and it is not the same thing but we get along well and we go out as two women.
Part Time Girl
Somany of us have this duality, or perhaps it's just our true nature deep down. I can see myself happy and fulfilled as a married woman, or even a married cross-dresser with a man
Never tried it,but some men our nice to me when I'm en femme and it feels good, I like it. Not sure if I could go all the way with one.
Paula, I sure get where you are coming from on this. i only feel that way, when i am all dolled up. Not when in guy clothes at all. I tend to believe the fantasy is more fun, than the real thing after a while. My last meeting with an "admirer", did not go well. I really am learning to be content as a single man, who dresses once in a while as a woman. I have been in recovery for emotional mental issues, also. Better for a few of us to live alone, with pets, like i do.
Cross dresser but perfectly happy with my wife.
Paula,
I know it's never going to happen , I'm just not wired that way. I don't think it's wrong in fact in some circumstances it's a natural thing to hapen as you say.The natural thing for me is to be in a female to female relationship .
I am a straight trans person. In that context I wish to be loved as a woman by a woman. I know it's weird & complicated.
If you found the right woman then...
As for me, I doubt I would ever go for men as I have no interest in men in that way.
I identify as a straight CD, Paula. Altho, I've had plenty of fantasies of being with a man early on in my dressing. And, I still enjoy being flattered and treated as a women by the rare male suitor.
But, being a straight man, there's nothing sexually attractive to me about men. On the other hand, Sherry has exactly what I'm attracted to! Technically, I guess I'm her boyfriend------
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I am not sure which of the 72 million labels applies to me, but I am pretty happy being a CD/bigender/whatever I am, with my wife. I just cannot personally find men attractive. But we're all different, to each their own.
I don't see myself as wanting to be with a man. I would be happy with a woman but my wife on the other hand that is another story.
No no no no
Not exactly weird anymore. Seems a lot of us are like that. But complicated? OH, yeah. The whole 'lesbian in a male body' thing is considered pretty strange to the general population. It's hard enough to explain the crossdressing. Add in the idea that we are still only attracted to women, and then wish to be treated as such, and it really becomes too complicated for most people to even consider. Then they just think we're freaks or something.Originally Posted by Fiona123
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
If anything, I imagine having a pseudo lesbian relationship with a woman. Which isn't to say I haven't had certain fantasies involving men, but ultimately, I prefer women.
Simple answer is yes. I'm out and single, really no big deal.
A straight crossdresser, a simplistic term to cover what I am. There is probably something deeper but I have zero interest in men.
Here today, gone tomorrow....
I think many here have the fantasy of being the woman in the relationship but would never ever act on it in real life.
I've been with guys before, and that is okay. As far as someone steady, I have a GF at this point but could possibly consider it in the future if something happens. It's like anything else, a lot depends on the person for myself.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
I don't look at my partner (who also crossdresses) as a boyfriend or as a girlfriend, but as a life partner. There is no difference in treatment no matter in which mode we display. I appreciate being loved for the person I am and not being loved only for a specific gender.
Last edited by Princess Chantal; 05-18-2017 at 07:29 AM.
Ihad a couple of boyfriends when I was twenty.
They were both encouraged by my girlfriends at the time and as I kept the boys at arms length they never found out about me.
One became besotted with me and it was arranged for me to disappear interstate and lose contact with him.
I felt sorry for him as in male mode I did see him occasionally, but it was better that he knew Beverley instead of having the illusion shattered.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
This is exactly they way I would want it.
I have always had the feeling to date a guy, but I am afraid
Afraid of what Brenda?
Like many of us there is the fantasy, but I could never act on it. I have had a couple of attractive men come on strong. Most likely drunk or trolling. There is far, far too much to lose in such a situation and always the worrys about STD's, etc. Will just keep it a fantasy.
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