Lately I've been seeing posts along the lines of I won't go here, or I won't do this, or I will stay away from these type of people. Let me say I'm not knocking any one for trying to avoid what could turn out to be a dangerous situation, or even avoiding a situation the could become ugly. Everyone wants be safe, at least I hope they do.
What I don't understand is it seems that most of what I'm seeing is along the lines of "I don't want to be made fun of/embarrassed" or "I don't want to be not liked". How do you think someone born with a birth defect, or some type of injury caused by an accident, or someone who is just not "normal" for the area feels. Do you think that they let their life be run/controlled by others feelings? Do you think that they refuse to live their life because they are different. Sadly it seems to be human nature to make fun of/ridicule those that are different, but that's the way it is.
Maybe I'm looking at this from the wrong angle since I am a transsexual woman and I live with this every day. Do I pass/blend? I don't know and honestly I don't care what others are thinking about me. I work in the security field and I don't have the luxury of always avoiding a situation that would make me uncomfortable, when something happens I'm expected to respond regardless of feelings (just for reference I've worked in areas where I've been the one that is the minority, or hated just because of the uniform I'm wearing). I work with people of all ages, sexes, and backgrounds everyday and guess what, most people don't care, and the ones that do mostly just drop it if you don't let them get to you.
Now that I've rambled long enough, what I'm really asking is are you afraid because you are actually worried about violence, or are you afraid because of your own insecurities? If it's the latter, why are you letting others control your life and keeping you from being yourself and being happy?
Just something for everyone to think about. Inquiring minds want to know.