Everyone seems to think that their SO should just suck it up and live with your cd'ing and not be bothered by it. OK, let's change the scenario for a bit and maybe put it in proper perspective. Imagine you're not a cd'er and know nothing about it (as seems the case with most SO's) and you've been together for a time. You think all is good. Then one day, out of the clear blue, your SO tells you that she wants to dress as a male, or has already been dressing as a male and wants to continue to do so and has even gone as far as to buy a toupee, maybe even a beard and moustache. Honestly, how do you think you'd feel? I for one don't think it would go over very well with me. After all, I married a woman. Remember, in this scenario you are NOT a cd'er or very knowledgeable about it and your SO doing it is the farthest thing from your mind.
How do you think you'd feel?
Jon
Just for the record, I'm one of the lucky one's who's wife knows and accepts it.