Hi All,

Since my wife found out about my dressing late last year we have had numerous discussions about it. All of these discussions have come in one of three forms. We discussed it in therapy, in the form of a serious one on one talk or it comes up in a joking manner. All of these are good in my opinion but last night something different happened.

Without boring you with the details of the conversation I'll just say that in a very routine, unplanned way she just mentioned something about an upcoming opportunity I'll have to dress and made a couple of supportive comments and suggestions. It was all so... normal. I know it doesn't sound like much and I'm not explaining it well but the fact that my dressing seems to be becoming normal for us in some small ways is huge for me.

Thanks for reading,
Elizabeth