Ok girls this is a big one, for the past couple of weeks I made some changes to my life, I've been going to a therapist for my gender issues, I started running to get into better shape and I made an instagram account to share my experiences if you want to follow me I'm xnicolex1988 if I can help one person through sharing my experiences then that makes me happy Anyway lately I've been wondering about just how happy I truly am as me, and by me I mean male me compared to Nicole. My first session was very positive and yesterday was my second session I went as Nicole This was my first time out as Nicole during the day so it was a big deal for me as I had to drive through the crowded city to get to my appointment. My therapist was really great and called me Nicole for the entire session I've been thinking about transition but I am so scared I have alot of great friends and family members who are supportive of me not to mention my GF, but still the fear is intense. I worry so much about work, family and life but, mostly I'm angry, I'm angry because I'll be 29 in August and I feel as though I cheated myself from experiencing life as a female in my early 20's I am aging nothing can be done about that I know lol So I gotta take the fine line wrinkles that are already starting I also have scarring on my face which I can cover up somewhat with makeup but OMG I worry so much about my appearance and I know I probably shouldn't but I do. Feeling this way only makes it harder to decide, I look at some other trans women and they are beautiful as they transitioned early in life, and then again I see just as many trans women older than me and they look incredible. What to do? "Do what you feel is right for you" that's what I'd say to someone in my position but it's not always easy take your own advice. I've been really torn over this therapy helps but here in Ireland you can't just get HRT, you have to live full time as a woman for a year before your allowed to start HRT, so this means even if I started living full time as Nicole tomorrow I'd be 30 before HRT could start Then there's surgery costs and after care OMG the list goes on... But even though I know that the road won't be easy I'm still drawn to walk down it. The pics below are of me this week the first 2 are of me early in the week i dressed almost everyday The one of me as a blonde was yesterday just before my therapy session I had like 30mins to get ready so was in a rush lol anyway any advice you girls could give would be really appreciated x