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    Dinner thing

    I had been out all day in my normal 50 /50 mode today and was headed home when I thought well maybe I will stop and get dinner in a new shopping area.
    Had rolled my hair last night and slept on it so my hair was super wavy and in a very femme style.
    This shopping area is new so I didn't know what was in there. As I cruised around it was like I had been transported in a small village and it was unlike any shopping area I had ever been in.
    Really cute and homey and when all the stores are done I will go back, clothing stores make up boutiques lots of interesting shops.
    Anyway I decided to try a BBQ place.
    I walk in and this really cute waitress that looks about 15 LOL greeted me and told me the specials.
    I thanked her and she stood there smiling so I walked around her to the order area. place my order make my drink and find a table.
    The whole time she is looking my way and I 'm thinking OK she can tell I'm trans and semi approves or is intrigued.
    I have seen this look before so I let it pass and answer my ringing cell phone.
    As I was ending my call she comes with my order and asks if I need anything else.I say no.
    About mid way thru my dinner I notice her looking (staring)at me again.
    I am like this is really weird do I look that strange? Have I got one black shoe and one brown one?
    Ok I was ready to leave and cleaning up my table she comes over and said you sure you don't want anything else?
    I said no and handed her her tip.
    She said I really like your outfit and you don't see many guys wearing girls stuff and wear it tastefully.
    Your hair is really awesome too. I thanked her for everything and the compliments and was heading out the door and she stops me and hands me her phone number.
    Crap I am old enough to be her Dad and maybe even Grandfather !!!
    At this point I said honey I appreciate everything and you are really pretty but I'm gay.
    She smiled and said you can still call me.
    So I have no idea what just happened really.
    Last edited by Tracii G; 06-17-2017 at 11:25 PM.

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    Maybe a new wingman, er, wingwoman? Oooh, that's awkward-sounding.

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    LOL Tracii,, wow getting hit on by a young girl. Heck call her and she wants to talk, maybe just to be friends..
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    To be honest she is way too young even for a shopping partner.
    She seemed really nice and accepting but I don't know her intentions.
    Does she have a "daddy " syndrome or just into older guys? I have no idea.
    All I know the age difference is probably 45 years and that to me screams creepy.
    Any young man would beg for a girl this cute with a tight backside and a pretty large set of boobs.
    On the plus side she seemed really genuine and slightly embarrassed when she mentioned what clothes I was wearing and my hair. I'm sure some of you have seen that one woman that pushes all your buttons and you just have to say something and end up coming off all goofy.
    She could be into trannies who knows?

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    if a young beautiful girl was starring at me, i would think it was because my zipper was down...
    i think i would still call her. it could be innocent, she could just be a really friendly person or maybe
    she has a brother or friend who is TG and just has some questions. maybe she wants to know who does
    your hair, or better yet maybe she does hair on the side and wants to do yours. maybe she wants to know
    where you shop. it could be anything... and if it does turn sexually, simply say that you're flattered and
    thank you... then give her my number
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    Paula, you are absolutely hilarious. I mean that extra kind of funny that really makes me laugh. I bet you are a real hoot to hang out with. I won't ever be able to get to New York by myself without my wife, but if I ever did, I would love to do dinner with you with me dressed as Scarlett and us just sit there and eat and laugh and tell stories until the place closed.

    Keep those replies coming girl friend. If I ever decide to go shopping or hit the town with a girl from this site, you would be at the very top of my list!

    Love ya girl friend and you know I am as straight and as happily married to one of the sexiest redheads in the world, but hanging out with you one night with me being Scarlett would be at the top of my bucket list!

    XOXOXO Scarlett

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    Hi Tracii with two "iis", it's Scarlett. After reading all of the replies and your replies to their replies, I'm glad you are considering going back another time with maybe a couple of pals. I think that would be the way to roll with this thing. I would make the girl feel very comfortable in asking any questions about you and you about her or her intentions.

    You and I, Tracii, are probably about the same age but look no wear near our age when we are all dolled up. I know, based on the comments I receive from the other girls on this site, if I went into a bar or restaurant and stayed there for a while, I would more than likely have some guys hitting on me or gay girls hitting on me. I would find it quite flattering and have to tell them how much I appreciated their attention and/or compliments but then let them know in a very kind way that I was extremely happily married to a gorgeous girl and that I'm just a guy who loves to get dressed up as a pretty girl by the name of Scarlett.

    That place you landed in, Tracii, sounds really cool. We have one or two of those places right here were I live. They are really special places to visit and shop and just sit there on a bench and people watch.

    By the way, Tracii, I am a horny handsome man but only towards my wife. I could make love to her for hours every single night of the week if she let me have my way with her that often. But that ain't gonna happen because her sex drive will never match up to mine. I swear, I think most wives are like camels with water, they could get their fill in one night and then go weeks without sex! Based on input from all my buddies, that situation is quite common. I think I am a very handsome guy and if I were my wife, I would want a roll in the hay with me every single night!

    By the way, GF, if you are as anything close to as gorgeous as you are in your Avatar photo, I can understand why anyone would hit on you. I wish you would send us more photos of you all girled up in The Photo Gallery. How come you don't post any photos of yourself in there. All of mine get a lot of attention and all of them are from last week or up to 4 or 5 months ago. None of them are from a year or longer ago. So still at my age I guess I clean up well as Scarlett or even as my guy self especially if I'm wearing one of those 12 slim cut suits from Joseph A. Banks I have in my closet to wear to semi formal events that I attend with my wife or when am at church on Sundays. I one of the few guys in Florida who loves to dress up and look really sharp as a guy or girl. It's just as a girl it takes me about two hours to get it all together and as a guy, I can get really really model like handsome in about 30 minutes and that, Tracii, includes the shower, shave, and donning the suit and rest of the clothes and footwear.

    Every time I read your posts I am always intrigued by your transformation. You're really pretty. I wonder how long did the entire process take, how much did it cost, how was it received by all who knew you, where you glad you did it, how far have you gone with surgery, are you still glad you went through with it, do you ever have second thoughts of doing it. I have many other questions because there are no trans in this area of the country and I have never been able to sit across the table from a pretty trans and ask her all of these questions in person. If you don't want to answer any of these questions in a private message, I can understand your need to keep answers to these questions private.

    Anyway, thanks for sharing your dinner story with us Tracii. Your post and the replies made for fascinating reading. I read every single note!

    Take care GF and thanks for always sending me a note in reply of my photo posts. They are always short, sweet, and right to the point.

    Sincerely Scarlett XOXOXO

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    Tracii,
    I believe you handled it correctly, too many succumb to needless temptation and get their fingers burnt.
    Work on your elegance,
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    Quote Originally Posted by Beverley Sims View Post
    Tracii,
    I believe you handled it correctly, too many succumb to needless temptation and get their fingers burnt.
    Oh heck, Beverly, I've had my fingers burned a few times....they heal

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    OMG Leslie, i loved that video! it's a riot!!
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    If this girl was a fully legal adult, I don't see why it would be "creepy". Having a GG interested in a dresser isn't something that happens often. Could you blame someone for calling her (if she was a legal adult of course)?
    Last edited by Vickie_CDTV; 06-18-2017 at 11:47 PM.

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    I'm sure she is "legal" as you put it but that doesn't change the creepy old man and young girl combination.
    Even if were friends the factor of impropriety weather factual or not would still be present in the minds of many people.
    Before I came out and explained I was gay I dated a girl that was 23 and I was 52 at the time.
    You would not believe the looks we got out at different clubs and venues.
    I got called a dirty old man and cradle robber as well as pervert and trust me that was not a nice feeling.
    When my youngest daughter saw us out eating dinner she was disgusted. Mostly because my date was younger than she was.
    My son in law gave me the thumbs up tho because this girl was smokin hot.
    We were just friends and not a couple as in being in a sexual relationship. She liked older guys and that was her thing.
    She also thought clowns were erotic so yeah she was different.

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    Tracii,
    What an amazing experience but I can see where you are coming from, I just love your comments.

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    Thanks Bobbi.
    I don't know if people can sense something different in people(or me) so they come up and make contact for whatever reason, its interesting to say the least.
    Last edited by Tracii G; 06-23-2017 at 06:10 PM.

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    I wouldn't be so fast to just blow off someone that wants to become friends. I have lots of gg friends. Most are younger than me. Yes they come up to me give me complements and ask to be friends. I like being different.

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    I said honey I appreciate everything and you are really pretty but I'm gay.
    She smiled and said you can still call me.
    Today's newer generation (young GGs) have many many interactions in high school. Some of their best friends were exactly; gay. You appear on a day at a BBQ and crossed baths with a generation "Z". What you did is, shut door on a simple pleasant exchange.

    From wikipedia
    A 2014 study Generation Z Goes to College found that Generation Z students self-identify as being loyal, compassionate, thoughtful, open-minded, responsible, and determined.[50] How they see their Generation Z peers is quite different from their own self-identity. They view their peers as competitive, spontaneous, adventuresome, and curious; all characteristics that they do not see readily in themselves.[50]
    Last edited by mbmeen12; 06-18-2017 at 02:57 AM. Reason: additional info
    Escapism isn't necessarily bad, but is definitely unhealthy in the long term. While helpful in the short term, things will degrade over time. At some point, the escapee will have to face the issue. Things simply blowing over isn't really going to happen in many situations.

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    Not sure I buy into the whole generation letter designation thing people are people and I don't judge them by age but by how they act.
    Wikipedia is not a solid source of information and that explanation they gave was someones opinion and essentially double talk.
    This girl seemed really sweet and didn't have any tattoos all over her which was refreshing for a change.
    The age difference is a sticking point I'll be honest even for me and there is point in a friendship between a man and woman as to what is proper and improper.
    If I ever go back there I'll be nice but call her I don't think so.
    @ Rachael I am gay so that was not a line or excuse.
    I do have some GG friends that are 10 15 years younger than I am and we shop or just hang out together all the time.
    I'm not a prude but a 40 year age difference is significant.
    Last edited by Tracii G; 06-18-2017 at 05:11 AM.

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    While the idea is fun, I wouldn't want a "friendship" with someone that young.
    I wouldn't have used the "gay" line, but still 15-20 is a very annoying age.
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    I would not get involved with her! Like you said 40 years is a large difference. And it may be totally innocent on her part but...no! Hugs Lana Mae
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    I heard the term generation Z at a graduation ceremony so I Goggled it. The Mayor spoke of them, they are the first generation to be the most ever plugged in. And used as a marketing tool for today's business metrics, politics and web sites like this. Wiki is not the bench mark/belly button of information and if ever quoted in a college paper as a source, the professor would have dinged you . I was posting to your statement "So I have no idea what just happened really." Just a theory Tracii G because you wrote a post and encounter with a younger person........Hope the dinner was good
    Last edited by mbmeen12; 06-18-2017 at 06:31 AM. Reason: typo
    Escapism isn't necessarily bad, but is definitely unhealthy in the long term. While helpful in the short term, things will degrade over time. At some point, the escapee will have to face the issue. Things simply blowing over isn't really going to happen in many situations.

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    Maybe I should start doing this 50/50 mode thing!
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    Besides her comment on how much she likes the way you have put yourself together and maybe wants you to put her together, I can't seem to figure out what the two of you would have in common with that huge age difference. Sometimes it's like people do things just to make you think what there up to, or what there real intentions are.

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    Has anyone considered she is trans?
    You are you. You are beautiful. Labels are worthless.

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    Traci, The only young women who approach me at my age are salespeople.
    Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".

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    Was she a legal age? You said she looks about 15. That would scare me off. Any way I'm a happily married man but this sounds kind of strange. You can still give her a call and ask her what her intentions were then if they turn wrong just hang up. Does your cell phone have that button you make your number now show? You definitely don't want a stalker or under aged girl chasing you. Flattering but then illegal....

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    "She could be into trannies..who knows?"
    Maybe she's trans.....

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