Good Morning,
I suppose this may come down to personal preference, and I will have to ask my bf his own, but I also wanted to get some other opinions...
When dressed (and please excuse my current misuse of any terms, perhaps that can be clarified as well or I'll learn and pick up more as I go), do you prefer to hear more feminine terms to describe yourself, or rather, how others describe you when in female mode?
Last night my bf sent me some pictures of himself dressed completely as his female counterpart (would that be alright to say, or is 'en femme' preferred?). When I thanked him for sending them to me (we were pm'ing), I told him I thought he was "very beautiful". After sending that initial message, I hesitated, took a deep breath, then I typed out another message telling him I thought he looked sexy (as he is quite sexy in a few, which I said to him). I commented on his face in some, saying he looked very demure, and on some other things as well. He was very sweet and gracious, saying 'thank you' and asking if I was ok with all of this, overall it was a very positive exchange.
I would like some opinions on how I talk to him though, or the terms I use, as not to make it awkward, I suppose. I wouldn't likely call him some of these things when in masc mode (some, but not in the same context), but is it acceptable to do so when he is dressed as a women? What do you like to hear to describe yourself? I hope this makes sense.
Any advice or input would be appreciated. Thank you.
-g