Like others here, hints of the real me communicate what I wish to say without going all the way. Clothes tend to link what is inside us with the environment we live in. Of course, they also keep us warm or cooler or protect us from the sun, etc. But we use clothes as a message board to others. Rather than carrying everything in my pockets I carry a gender neutral bag and have a women's wallet. I discovered the purse idea that women use is the best idea since, well, ... And women's wallets are fantastic and so much better than men's wallets. I wear feminine colors a lot. I wear panties a lot, but those are for me. We each find a way to communicate who we are to others. So, find your own things that are comfortable, give hints without using a megaphone, and you will likely be far more comfortable. The pink fog episodes will not be so common. Life is much better. And nobody says anything, but I can see in their eyes they are thinking, "Hmm, now that is interesting."