I thought being on vacation 200 miles away, I'd be able to relax a little and do some shopping (with the wife) without feeling like there was a neon sign over my head. After several failed attempts, with the wife's help, I came home empty handed. Mind you, I am extremely self-conscious, and feel out of place wherever I go. I'm always in male mode, but even that doesn't feel right most of the time. I envy those of you that can go out anywhere, in any "mode" and be relatively comfortable(specifically in stores). on top of that, there ended up being 4 couples that we knew from home. I guess we'll have to travel 300 miles next time!