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    Telling the girlfriend

    I’ve been dating a GG for almost a year now and it’s been going great! I told her about Leah early into the relationship as to avoid some past mistakes. She been very supportive and Leah is about to make her first appearance with her....soooo I’m a little nervous and excited!

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    Good luck. I hope that this was her idea and you’re not springing this on her unexpectedly.

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    I'll echo the "good luck." I read your biography. I can understand why you may be a little gun shy in revealing, but, she has been forewarned. If it does not work out at least you know you did not spring something so intimate on her. But, keep in mind a woman can change her mind as you found out.

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    I hope everything goes the way you want it to!

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    Thanx all!
    A mutual agreement, I’ve not been forceful at all with her. She’s wanting to meet Leah.

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    Since you have already told your girlfriend about it I think things will go very well. Good luck

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    Now just plan a nice outing, maybe a little walk in the park, going shopping at the mall, a intimate lunch or dinner ...

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    Leah I do hope this goes great for the both of you and please keep us informed

    leggs crossed

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    Do tell us how it goes.
    Really happy for you.

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    Hoping it all goes well! Hugs Lana Mae
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    Good Luck. Though you have told her, have you shown her? She might need to see what you are doing before she will get caught in public with you, if your 'presentation' is not up to her expectations. Might need to do some 'around the house' displaying first.
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    Leah, good luck and i hope she likes you en fem. I remember doing that and it took her a while but she is very supports me now. .
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    She might be a little shocked at first but keep reassuring that you are the same as you were before she met Leah. Good luck.

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    So how fully femme are you going? Full make-up and hair/wig etc?

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    Hi Leah , Good luck keek us advised.>Orchid......
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    Leah, Good luck with the first appearance. While my SO is supportive and I have been out with her, I am not always comfortable dressed around her. So you may have to deal with that feeling.
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    Good luck, Leah!! I hope it goes very well (as well as you want )

    And good on you for being honest with her. We'll await your report
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    Hello Leah, just curious, has she seen pictures of you en femme yet? Or will she see Leah for the first time in person? I didn't know if you wanted to ease into the revealing of Leah.
    Regards,
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    Good luck it took my wife awhile to deal with Amber and understand but now she sees me dressed up and it's not a huge deal she gives me advice on my makeup so all is good

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    Leah,

    I am so excited for you. What a moment.
    Good luck, and be beautiful.
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    I could no more deny Her than I would my own soul.

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    No pictures...I don’t have any to show her. We’ve been looking at clothes and stuff on amazon together. Her worst fear has been confirmed... I have a ton of stuff in my shopping cart and it’s gotten pretty damn expensive! Lol that was her concern the cost!

    I’m making cuts now...hopefully by the end of the day I’ll have my cart in order. I’ll put the rest in my wish list for later 😊

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    I hear you. My wish list would bankrupt me!

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    Leah,

    Best wishes on the reveal. I'd suggest you both go thrift shopping, share that experience, and save some money in the process. Though I'm sure it's tempting to place that Amazon order.

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    My amazon wishlist would bankrupt the entire state of Arizona .....

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