Yesterday while I was perusing the racks at one of my favorite stores, I finally got up the courage to ask the SA out to dinner. She is close to my age ( mid 40s) and knows all about Stephanie as she has seen me come in and shop both as her and in male mode and we have talked numerous times about different clothes and how they look and feel. She has also given me advice on what looks good on me and where I can get different types of clothes, not just in her store but in other stores on the mall where she works. SHE SAID YES, we are going out next weekend for dinner and a movie. While she said she has no problem going out with me dressed, would it be too much for a first date? Should I go in male mode or should I just go for it and buy a new dress and shoes and go as Stephanie?