My wife discovered my panties and bras this week. I was really upset... She went through my things and took everything....so upset. She was not nice about it. She totally lost it just like I thought she would! She wanted to get a divorce until I told her the panties were mine...then she lost it again. I wanted to tell her for a while, but i was scared of the outcome. But it good she found out...forced to.... She handled it very poorly though like I thought she would. She was not accepting and acted like a total victim. I wanted to get past it quickly but she had a hard time with it. I can already tell it is going to be a don't ask don't tell situation. So sad. I wish she would understand but she doesn't due to her conservative family values.