U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
and look at the success you've achieved traci. be safe karrin
A completely new, out of the blue interest in dressing in middle age is pretty rare. Not unheard of, but fairly rare, as others have said it manifests itself in some form from an early age.
Back when I was a young, I remember doing research on transvestism and remember reading research about men who started dressing suddenly in middle age or or older. Some speculated it was significant head trauma (this was a common one cited), certain drugs, and traumatic loss as possible reasons. Granted it is really dated today but I did find it rather interesting, and a contrast to the even-then company line of "any trans behavior whatsoever is inborn and can never be bought on nor changed".
I started around age 5 and quit when I went off to college. The urge mostly just went away until about the age of 40 when it cam back with a vengeance. Now its all I think about. And now, there is a sexual excitement component where there wasn't before. Also, before it was just dressing. Now, I want to look like a woman, be as feminine as I can be, and go out and blend in.