Behaviour when dressed en femme

[Stacy Darling]

I did reply earlier saying most definitely not!

Favourite skirt and a squirt of new perfume tonight and! "I'm Done!"
All femme whilst my wife is asleep, Stacy!

[Sarah Doepner]

When I present as female in public I do my very best to adopt and practice mannerisms that are feminine without being an obvious act. I attempt to provide as many female cues as possible, not because I want to fool anyone but to not attract unwarranted attention to myself. With any kind of observation it's pretty obvious I'm not a cis-woman, but if through my choice of clothing, makeup, hair and actions I can only get that attention primarily from those I want to engage with, that is my measure of success. If someone across the room sees a large woman or possibly what the see as a trans-woman rather than a man wearing a woman's clothing, both our worlds are a calmer and better place.

I'm not saying it always works, but that's what I aim for.