I told my wife last night I was transgender. Her response was what i expected for the most part
Doesn't want to be with a woman doesn't want the kids to be confused be bullied etc
Basically not ok with me transitioning
But wants me to be able to live a happy life even if its not with her
But I do feel some relief even though you hope for a more positive response
She has always known about dressing and i usually have my nails painted
So now I have to do some soul searching and see if a gender queer /non binary will work for me
Hopefully she will be a little more understanding now thats she knows and We can save our marriage even if it means me not transitioning
Now that I am not hiding from it will help my mental state