Sometimes I find myself looking at certain women's clothing , and think that is just too feminine for me , then I think it is supposed to be , because it is made for a woman , and that is the reason I am looking at it and considering it on me and that is ok .
Do any others have this thought on occasions .?
Hi Terri,
Initially yes, as my brain would come to grips as to the resultant vision I was seeing in the mirror. Over time though, that feeling subsided somewhat and now instead of that, it hads become more of an age appropriate thoughts
Yeah, I still get that from time-to-time. I think I feel I don't have a membership card to the girl's club and feel I'm pushing a limit. If it's important to you, over time the self-imposed restriction will relax.
I am not a woman; I don't want to be a woman; I don't want to be mistaken for a woman.
I am not a man; I don't want to be a man; I don't want to be mistaken for a man.
I am a transgender person. And I'm still figuring out what that means.
I don't feel that something may be too feminine for me to wear. To me it is more important, that something fits well and looks good on me.
I would love an off the shoulder cocktail dress or gown, low cut back and figure hugging. But there is no way I can pull it off and besides I really have nowhere to wear it.
I'm in the age appropriate age as well, however at 55, I still feel I can do the things I could do in my 20's, but somehow, the next day the body says "no way, never again". I'm sure the same is for fashion, be it male or female. I don't want to be wearing old peoples fashion, but young peoples fashion is so not me as well. Some brands offer classic style, which is so appropriate even if you are in your 30's or 60's. Just shop these brands and you will have an outfit for life.
I don't think I have that problem. I purposely will choose the most feminine piece of clothing in a line of similar clothes. My wife has regular panties without lace or bows, but I want the ones with lace and bows haha
I have a Minnie Mouse PJ. top.
Only the wife gets to see that.
I do wear skater skirts and jeans for 16 year old girls fit me better as do the tops.
Not too feminine though.
Frilly and taffeta is for a party or cocktail night.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I've never worried if something was too feminine after all feminine is what I strive to project when I'm enfemme. At 58 I do consider if an item is age appropriate, I also consider if it is is venue/occasion/time of day appropriate. Lastly the item must be figure flattering I don't care how stylish or cute something is on someone else if it doesn't fit me well and give me a sense of feminine confidence I will not wear it.
Exactly... I pick over my female apparel and select what I think is right for the occasion. If it is not flattering, I will not wear it, period.Originally Posted by Jillian Faith
Amen Ricki
I always like feminine, but it may be too sexual, too age inappropriate, etc. I don't go out in public too often, so too feminine is not an issue.
Hugs, Ellen
A bit. Mostly first it's do I like it, then how will it look and fit on me.
I struggle with feminine fashion as to me it is 98% not worth a look!
With us all having our separate tastes & styles I'm sure to look at different styles and think that they were not for me.
But then I'm the chick who'd prefer to be in a floral skirt and flip flops, and not black lace!
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm a very pretty and confident woman which doesn't go for things such as chiffon, taffeta or lace!
Our personal taste is our own!
Stacy!
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There's this one wig I own that I love but seldom wear because it's too intensely feminine. I think of myself more as a country girl.
I don't think anything is 'too feminine', but I do look at what women wear all the time, some items I would consider for myself, others I wouldn't. It all comes down to personal choice.
Here today, gone tomorrow....
The only time I worry about anything looking too girlie is when I am buying for stealth mode.
That's what draws me to many styles is that they are feminine, I love feminine styles especially tops and even cute tee shirts
At my age it's "age appropriate" clothing for time and place. I have never owned or wore anything that is not a dress when it comes to women's clothing. Maybe that can be attributed to being raised in the 1950's and 1960's when women I knew only wore dresses. Pants were frowned upon. I always described it as the "June Cleaver" look. It's always a pretty dress with proper undergarments to include a slip, bra, panty and hosiery. For me women's jeans and slacks are too masculine.
I tend to love girly things. Whether they love or suit me is another question.
I love short skirts but not 21 any more. Wish I had been more able to accept liking women's clothes then, but happy ☺where I am now.
Too, feminine? I agree with others-too sexy, not age appropriate! Too feminine-like my lilac dress with lace sleeves and bodice! Plain Jane most of the time but like some lace! I also have some jeans with embroidery! I like feminine just not over the top! Hugs Lana Mae
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I have an aversion to thong wear, will never own them. I no longer buy mini skirts or super short dresses. A few inches above the knee are as high as i go now.
I love all kinds of female fashions, but that doesn't mean I have the figure to pull off wearing them.
"You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
Actually age appropriate clothes are pretty good. Take a look from the 20's, 30' forty''s, fifty and sixty clothes for women. I would say the sixty clothes are fabulous and look the best of all the girls.. except the young ones.
Part Time Girl
I wear female apparel that matches up with my female psychology. I think we all instinctively know what we like in clothing. I buy things that match my personality. I buy and wear clothing that match who I am NOT who I want to be. Hope that makes sense
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