My wife already knew about my love of high heels before we got married; I was on a deployment and showed her some pictures of heels I like to wear.
At this time I only wore them around the house, mainly in the bedroom.
And I would wear the occasional skirt indoors when I was alone.
It was only a few years ago when I told her that I love to get completely dressed up to stand-up comedy and make YouTube videos.
So she has adjusted to quite a bit, but not as much as others.